Estate planning for unmarried couples

Estate Planning for Couples Who Live Together but Are Not Married – How to Avoid the Black Swan Risks

Authored by:

Attorney & Entrepreneur

Leighton Tyau

Founder and principal attorney at Copper State Estate Planning, an Arizona-based boutique law firm providing tailored estate planning services to individuals and families who want to leave a legacy

Reviewed by:

Senior Attorney

Lisa Kiser

Ms. Lisa Kiser is a fourth-generation Arizona native who graduated from Quinnipiac University School of Law in Connecticut. Lisa spent over 18 years as a prosecutor handling misdemeanors and felonies, including murder. After numerous jury and bench trials (winning most of them); Lisa decided it was time for a change and began practicing Estate Planning.

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Introduction

In today’s society, an increasing number of couples are choosing to live together without getting married. Unfortunately, this decision can lead to complications when it comes to estate planning. Without proper planning, these couples may face unintended consequences and unlikely but high impact financial risks, known as Black Swan events, which can significantly impact their future. This article will outline the dangers faced by unmarried couples and provide guidance on how to avoid these risks through strategic estate planning.

The Costs of Remaining Unmarried

Lack of Legal Recognition

One of the primary dangers of remaining unmarried is the lack of legal recognition for the couple’s relationship. While unmarried couples may consider themselves to be in a committed partnership, they are not automatically granted the same legal protections and rights as married couples. This can lead to complications in areas such as property ownership, inheritance, and decision-making in the event of incapacitation.

Inheritance Issues

When a person dies without a will, their estate is distributed according to the intestacy laws of their jurisdiction. Under Arizona law and most state intestacy laws, your partner will have no claim to your estate under the intestacy laws which will leave assets to descendants and then your parents and their descendants. The primary risk in this situation is unintended disinheritance.

Health Care Decisions

In the event of a medical emergency or incapacitation, unmarried partners may not have the legal authority to make certain healthcare decisions on each other’s behalf. Under Arizona’s default laws, priority is given for adult children and parents. This can result in family members making decisions that the couple may not agree with, potentially leading to undesirable outcomes.

Potential Tax Implications

In addition to losing out on income tax advantages while alive, unmarried couples may face unfavorable estate tax implications, such as being unable to take advantage of the unlimited marital deduction or the portability of the federal estate tax exemption between spouses.

Strategies to Avoid these Unintended Consequences

Draft a Comprehensive Estate Plan

To avoid the potential risks and complications of remaining unmarried, couples should work with an experienced estate planning attorney to develop a comprehensive estate plan. This plan should include documents such as a will, durable power of attorney, and health care proxy. Creating an estate plan ensures that the couple’s wishes are respected and provides a clear roadmap for the distribution of their assets.

Use Trusts Strategically

Trusts are a valuable estate planning tool that can be used to provide for a partner while they are alive and ensure that the remaining assets are distributed according to your wishes after their death. By establishing a trust, you can leave assets to your partner to use and enjoy during their lifetime, while designating your bloodline, chosen beneficiaries, or a charity to receive the remainder of the assets upon your partner’s passing.

By utilizing trusts, you can control the asset distribution by specifying the terms under which your beneficiaries may access the funds. In addition, the trust is protected from creditors, further estate tax, and Medicaid.

Create a Cohabitation Agreement

To further protect their rights and interests, unmarried couples may choose to enter into a cohabitation agreement. This legally binding document can outline each partner’s rights and responsibilities, including property division, support obligations, and decision-making authority in the event of incapacitation.

Conclusion

Unmarried couples who live together face unique challenges when it comes to estate planning. Without proper preparation, these couples may encounter legal obstacles, unintended beneficiaries, and unfavorable tax implications. However, by implementing strategic estate planning techniques, such as drafting a comprehensive estate plan, utilizing trusts, and creating a cohabitation agreement, couples can successfully navigate these challenges and protect their assets and each other’s interests.

As an experienced estate planning attorney, I understand the potential dangers of remaining unmarried and the importance of addressing these risks proactively. Taking the time to plan now can help you and your partner avoid unforeseen complications and Black Swan events that may arise in the future, providing peace of mind and security for both of you. Don’t wait until it’s too late—contact me today to schedule a consultation and start the process of creating a comprehensive estate plan that will protect your assets, your relationship, and your future.

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